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[transhuman]

This is a bit embarassing but I don't know if I'm normal or not but I often worry about the size of my thingy--if its big enough or not! I measured it once and it was about 10 cm normal and 18 cm up but I keep on wondering if that is normal or too small as some English guys in my school showers had much longer ones and now I'm worried...what if no girl marry's me because of this?
Shall I worry...

[transhuman]

does no one else have such worries? or do u not use the showers in school or college? what about the women readers on here? is it an issue (not mine personally!) but in general...?
that opens another question: should muslims share showers at school etc?

[Amina]

loooooooooooool
awwwww bless
dnt worry if someone wants to marry u cause of the size of your "crown jewels" then you shouldnt want them anyways and the same goes fpr if they dnt want to marry you for the same reason.
its cool to worry about stuff like that evn girls worry about like that aswell (different parts obvs).
i dnt think its a muslim thing but just generally i dnt think people should share showers.

[transhuman]

lol!
well at least one person thinks i'm normal!
in guys changing rooms at school it is kind of normal to all take a shower...they have a wall with say 6 showers in it and you all strip off after PE and get in the shower...its kind of impossible not to check out the sizes of the other guys...!
i bet girls do it too in their changing rooms...i know some brothers who don't do PE for that reason or who dont shower afterwards and then they smell all day...

[Amina]

we dnt have showers in our school
but then again our pe lessons are hardly intensly active either. showerings nt an issue. except for in swimming. but everyone showers with thier costume so yet again nt a problem. wow sounds like lifes hard when ur a boy.

[transhuman]

yeh well i went to an all boys school which was fairly traditional--we had houses like in harry potter etc. and when i was there not so many muslims so i got used to showering and seeing other guys naked after PE...i noticed two things: one that all the non-Muslim guys had this skin like a hood hanging off their thingies which i found really strange and second i couldn't help comparing size...


its not so hard being a boy...but the teachers could be really tuff... well i decided it was easier to just fit in with all the others and since all of my friends were English boys we often talked about size of our thingies so it just kind of seemed an important thing in my mind in terms of marriage and relationships..

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thanks for the feedback..its made me feel a bit better...

[transhuman]

maybe i have these worries cos of the school i went to and the friends
i had were all English and not muslim? what do u think amina?

[LamishaxD]

i dont think size matters....enuf said haha